Failure: The FLIA Way

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​Hi Love,

Failure can be such a rich opportunity for healing and learning some of our powerful, hidden gifts. 

I wanted to share some of the things I did and some of the tools I used as this failure was unfolding then maybe the impact of my failure has a ripple effect. How sweet is that?

This is part 2 of Failure, in case you missed part 1, here it is: I Failed: What I Learned

To give a little history. A couple of months ago I had this calling to move forward with an event I have been thinking about for a few years.

I said “hell yes!” because in that time I have learned to listen to what calls me.

I planned my approach, set some goals and took the leap, the whole time thinking, “This time will be different” while imagining success was in my future. On July 22nd I would be hosting a fabulous, full group event.

On the day of final registration I had 1 person registered.

Of course I realized before that day that things were not unfolding as I imagined.

I consciously chose to not repeat the patterns of the past by taking a BIG idea and making it small and limited! I was following through to completion even though part of me wanted to cancel or make it a private event.

As I continued to follow through on my strategy I got more NO responses for various reasons: vacation, work, budget, commitment to other events, etc.

Yet as I go NO’s from individuals so many new insights, ideas and opportunities showed up.

So what was different this time?

I have been consistent in my own healing, getting to know my shadow, taking care of myself, surrounding myself with a fabulous support team and trusting my intuition and psychic guides.

I launched Safe to SOAR earlier this year, being fully grounded in my inner safe space and been working with FLIA not just in my relationship but in other areas of my life as well.

AND it’s working in beautiful and magical ways!

Tips When Failure Looms: Use The FLIA Way!

  • Fun: How will you celebrate what you are healing, unlearning and learning and the opportunities showing upthei?

  • Loving: Express the anger, frustration, hurt, grief and whatever else is coming up. Get that shit out! Everything looks clearer with that space.

  • Be kind to yourself. Failure can be hard enough on its own.

  • Intentional: Ground into the energy of “I am Safe” every day for at least 7 days. (Available for FREE download in FLIA Moments and Meditations).

  • Adventure: Start a list of opportunities whether it is for the next step or the ultimate goal. Do this every day for a week. And take a leap, include things on the list you never imagined doing. You just might surprise yourself.

And then follow through on what shows up! You have the wisdom within you!

And stay tuned to for one of the opportunities that showed up in this failure- a new podcast that myself and a friend and colleague are starting called “The Uncharted Adventure: Embracing the Unknown with Nat and Dr Jenn”

Want to join Dr Jenn on this adventure? Be ONE in a Million!

Love Y’all!

Dr. Jenn